我听说治疗恩怨情仇病的办法就是把恩人冤家情人或仇人都招呼在一起，解决矛盾，感觉为难了，说：“这不是几句话的事，这要能言善辩的人说和，从中调解。看来，我学不了这事儿，没知识，没经验，我还不健谈。”
I heard that the cure for
the Illness of Gratitude Resentment Love and Hatred is to gather benefactors,
adversaries, lovers, and enemies together to resolve conflicts. Feeling
daunted, I said, “This isn't something that can be settled with a few words. It
requires someone eloquent and persuasive to mediate and reconcile. It seems I'm
not cut out for this—I lack the knowledge, the experience, and I'm not a smooth
talker either.”
她反驳道：“你错了！你还真就能办这事儿。如果你不行，从开始我就不会给你讲。我看你行，才说的。”
我迷惑不解：“你什么时候看我能行？”
She retorted: "You're
wrong! You can really do this. If you couldn't, I wouldn't have told you about
it from the beginning. I saw that you could, so I said it."
I was confused: "When
did you see that I could do it?"
她说：“这事你得这么看，学办事与性格有关。就这事，如果没有合适的性格，有的人学两、三年也整不好。你有这性格，现在我把道理和办事步骤给你讲清楚。如果你在舅舅家碰上这事，你办起来就得心应手，能办成。如果你不行，我也不能给你讲啊！那，人家那里要死人了，我怂恿你过去，打架生气，什么正面作用没有。那我办得是什么事！我有那么缺德吗！”
She said: "You should
look at it this way. Learning how to do affairs is related to personality. As
for this matter, if learners don't have the right personality, some people
won't be able to learn it for two or three years. You have this personality,
now I explain the principles and procedures clearly to you. If you encounter
this matter at your uncle's house, you'll be able to handle it easily. If you
can't, I wouldn’t explain it to you at the beginning. People are dying there,
and I'm encouraging you to go over there to fight and get angry, which has no
positive effect. Then what kind of work am I doing! Am I that unethical!"
我问：“我有什么性格特质？你怎么知道的？”
她说：“咱俩上次见面的时候，你和现在就不一样。当时，你笑呵呵的，那样儿，我都没认出来你！直到你问我，‘你是刘健君吗？’
我就愣住了，心想：怎么还换人了呢！谈恋爱这事儿还带换人的！我想了好长时间，才想明白：你是个多重性格的人。就在刚才，你又变了，幸亏我知道了；若不然，可被你吓着了！截止到现在，我看出来你有三个性格，其中一个就能办这事。”
I asked: "What is my
personality? How do you know that?"
She said: "The last
time we met, you and now are different. At that time, you were smiling, like
that, I didn't even recognize you! Until you asked me, 'Are you Eve Liu?' I
froze, thinking how come the person is changed! How come the person replaced in
the affair of falling in love! I thought about it for a long time before I
realized: you are a person with multiple personalities. Just now, you changed
again! Fortunately, I knew; otherwise, can be scared by you! As of now, I see
that you have three personalities, and one of them can do this."
她给我解释了好多，还举例子。我根本听不懂，处于云里雾里，问：“怎么能确定，我在我舅舅家的时候，刚好是那种能超渡人的性格？”
She explained a lot to me
and gave me examples. I couldn't understand it at all, was confused, so I
asked: "How can you be sure that when I was at my uncle's house, I
happened to have the kind of personality that can transcendently ferry people?"
她说：“你的性格随着环境的改变而改变。现在你这性格是溜边儿、躲躲闪闪。你到你舅舅家，如果碰到这种情况，你就自然而然地变了；你就勇敢起来了，挺身而出。你相信我，这点事儿，我100%不会看错。这事儿只要有人牵头，就能办成。谁和谁有多大的仇，不能原谅一个将死的人。”
She said: "Your
personality changes with environments. Right now, this personality of yours is
to slip around the edges and hide. When you go to your uncle's house, if you
come across such a situation, you change naturally; you get brave and stand up
for yourself. Believe me, I am 100% not wrong about this. This is something
that can be done if someone takes the lead. Anyone who has a grudge against
anyone can't forgive someone who's going to die."
注2，法即轨持。我认为本文刘健君的这种看人神态的能力就是法眼。她的这个能力是从她家的一本书和父母学来的。那本书，俗称《天书》，是我故乡的法师（即牧师）和算命先生的通用教材，但只以师徒相传的方式传播，不公开贩售。我听说过《天书》很多次，没见过。根据传说的描述，我认为那套《天书》实际就是古典心理学，书中以金童玉女为基本模型（如图7.5.1-2；参见10.9《三位一体》）。
Note 2, Law means rail,
track. I think this Eve Liu’s ability to see people's Godly (i.e.
unconsciously) demeanor in this article is Juristic Eye. She learned this
ability from a book in her home and from her parents. That book, commonly known
as the Sky Book, is the universal textbook of the Juristic Teachers (i.e.
priests) and fortune-tellers in my homeland, but it is only disseminated in the
form of masters and disciples and is not openly peddled. I have heard “Sky
Book” many times, but I have never seen it. Based on the description of the
legends, I believe that that Sky Book is classical psychology, with the Gold
Boy and Jade Girl as the basic model for the book (see Fig. 7.5.1-2; see 10.9
Godly Trinity).
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