从舅舅家回来后，我约会刘健君，她说她忙，没时间。我去向张利民宿舍的室友们请教此事。还没说完我和刘健君的事，张利民笑得闭不上嘴了，对我说：“别误会！你进屋一说女朋友，甲同学就告诉我，你今天是来向我们请教如何解决你的那个女朋友的问题。” 他又对室友甲说：“真神！你没说卢岩病了，我还真没看出来！咋才约会几次，他就闹心成这样了！？”
After returning from my
uncle's house, I contacted Eve Liu for a date, but she said she was busy and
had no time. I went to ask my roommates in Zhang Limin's dormitory for advice
on the matter. Before I finished talking about Eve Liu and I, Zhang Limin
couldn't shut his mouth from laughing and said to me: "Don't get me wrong!
As soon as you came into the room and said girlfriend, Classmate A told me that
you came here today to ask us for advice on how to solve that girlfriend
problem of yours." He added to Classmate A: "Holy! I didn't really
see it until you said Luyan is sick! How come he's so upset after just a few
dates!"
同学甲说：
“就有这样的人，那个女的就是个让人闹心的人！我给你举个例子说，咱这些人正在这讨论得热闹呢，她来了，说几句，就掩（杀）倒咱这一群人。她的知识面比咱们宽，看得就是比咱们深。那咱们还能说啥！”
张利民问：“你咋知道那个女的就是那样儿的人？”
Classmate A said:
"There are such people, that girl is a disturbing person! Let me give you
an example. We are having a lively discussion here, she comes and says a few
words, houses up (pinches, kills) our group of people. Her knowledge is wider
than ours, and she sees deeper than we do. What else can we say?"
Zhang Limin asked, "How
do you know that woman is that kind of person?"
乙同学说：“看看咱们东北大学天才班那帮疯子，谁能整得了！中国医科大学天才班的学生肯定比咱东大的疯多了！”
张利民问：“我还挺喜欢他们呢！找个有学问的女朋友，挣钱多，有啥不好！卢岩为啥闹心？”
Classmate B said, "Look
at those crazy people in the genius class at our Northeastern University, who
can handle them! The students in the genius class at China Medical University
are much crazier than our Northeastern!"
Zhang Limin asked: "I
quite like them! What's wrong with finding an educated girlfriend who earns
more money! Why is Luyan so upset?"
同学甲说：
“受气！又说不过人家，整的连话都不敢说了，人家看不起你！那个女的优点明显，卢岩否定不了；缺点突出，卢岩忍受不了。处与不处，卢岩决定不了，所以问咱们来了。” 甲对我说：“这个不行！长痛不如短痛，当即立断！”
Classmate A said:
"Being squeezed (pinched, housed)! Speeches are inferior to her, even dare
not to speak! She despises you! The girl's advantages are obvious, Luyan can
not deny; shortcomings are prominent, Luyan can not countenance. Luyan can't decide
whether to get along or not, so he came to ask us. This won't work! Long pain
is worse than short pain, break up immediately!"
张利民对他说：“哎！哎！卢岩没让你给做决定！这才刚认识。时间长了，你咋知道那女的不会喜欢上卢岩，让着他呢！”
他们认为，“诤”是刘健君的个人特质，终生不变，一辈子学不会个 “让” 字。医大天才班的人，那是全国一流的天才，我卢岩资质平平，和她结婚，我一辈子就只能畏畏缩缩地活着。这婚姻不般配，建议我找个和自己差不多的。
Zhang Limin said to him:
"Hey! Ai! Luyan didn't let you make the decision! They've only just met.
After a long time, how do you know that the girl will not like Luyan, give way
to him!"
They think,
"Expostulation" is Eve Liu's personal strong trait, lifelong, can not
learn the word "Concession." The people in the genius class of the
China Medical University are the first-class geniuses in whole China, and I,
Luyan, have mediocre qualifications. If I marry her, I can only live in fear
for the rest of my life. This marriage is not a good match, suggest that I find
a like me.
诤是好心劝谏义，是一切暴乱的起因。这个年龄阶段的玉女（夏娃，观音菩萨），诤心特别重。如图7.6-1是古墨西哥的翠玉女（夏娃，约20-39岁）的特质画。眼睛长在头顶，身体很宽，表示她傲慢，看不起别人。玉女擅长 “五百威仪十万八千魅力” ，再加上她有女神的外貌，她对别人的影响力极大。图中她有很多眼睛，表示她有很多智慧。她的利爪和关节处的嘴表示她的一举一动，一言一行都会对别人构成伤害。图中她的腿是由许多枯骨组成的，表示她因为 好 诤
，害了很多人。比如作者我就被刘健君给诤病了。
Expostulation is the act of
earnestly protesting or remonstrating, is the cause of all riots. At this stage
of life, Jade Girl (Eve, Guanyin Bodhisattva) exhibits particularly intense expostulatory.
Figure 7.6-1 depicts the characteristics of the jade girl (Eve, aged
approximately 20-39) from ancient Mexico. Her eyes positioned atop her head and
her broad physique signify arrogance and contempt for others. Jade Girl excels
in “500 Majesties and 108,000 Charms,” and coupled with her goddess-like
appearance, her influence over others is immense. Her multiple eyes in the
image symbolize her many profound wisdoms. Her sharp claws and jointed mouth
indicate that her every move and word will cause harm to others. Her legs,
composed of numerous skeletal bones, signify her excessive “expostulatory” has
harmed many. For example, I, the author, was so expostulated by Eve Liu that I
became sick.
我打电话给刘健君，说话支支吾吾的，她说：“我也觉得咱俩不合适。”
就这样，她和我分手了。
一周后，我已经把她忘了，逐渐从不舒服的身心状态恢复了健康。
I called Eve Liu, stammered,
she said: "I also think we are not suitable." Thus, she broke up with
me.
A week later, I gradually
recovered from the uncomfortable physical and mental state of health, and I had
already forgotten about her.
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一天中午，路过祝老师的宿舍门口，他叫我过去。我笑着进了他们的房间。祝老师让我走近些。我郑重其事地听。他说：“刘健君她妈让我告诉你，她说你见人往后缩，一说话还脸红，啥也不知道！她不愿意和你相处了。我不是告诉你了，要注意接人待物的举止吗！”
One day at noon, passing by
the door of Teacher Zhu's dormitory, he called me over. I smiled and entered
their room. Teacher Zhu asked me to come closer. I listened solemnly. He said:
"Eve Liu's mom told me to tell you that she says you shrink back when you
see people, blush when you talk, and don't know anything! She doesn't want to
get along with you anymore. Didn't I tell you to pay attention to your demeanor
in dealing with her!"
我立刻生气地大叫：“她早就告诉我了！” 转身离开了。
祝老师对他室友叨咕：“怎么搞的？这事不用告诉两遍。走，咱俩过去看看！” 他们俩跟到了我的房间。
I immediately yelled in
anger: "She told me that already!" Turning away.
Teacher Zhu chattered to his
roommate: "What the hell? You don't have to tell this twice. Come on,
let's both go over and look!" The two of them followed me to my room.
祝老师说：“卢岩伤自尊了！” 他室友叨咕：“他还能伤自尊！”
祝老师对他的室友嚷嚷：“你闭嘴！你看谁都和你自己一样！” 对我说：“这事不怪你，你很好，很正常，是刘健君那丫头太厉害了！”
Teacher Zhu said,
"Luyan's pride has been hurt!" His roommate grumbled, "How could
he possibly have his pride hurt?"
Teacher Zhu yelled at him: "Shut
up! You look at everyone like yourself!" To me, he said: "You're not
to blame for this, you're fine and normal, it's that girl Eve Liu who's too
powerful!"
我流着眼泪说：“她厉害！那不还是我不行么！”
他的室友说：“哎呀！卢岩真的哭了，真动情了！怎么反应这么强烈？”
I said with tears in my
eyes: "She's awesome! Then it's still me who's not good!"
His roommate said:
"Oops! Luyan really cried and got emotional! Why did you react so
strongly?"
祝老师对他说：“这不明摆着的事么！” 对我说：“不是你不行！刘健君是真的与众不同。这丫头挤怼人，那才让人难受呢！你别看我都四十来岁了，在没人的时候，就因为她，我都哭过五、六次了。你看，我就这么帮她介绍男朋友，她怎么对我？你和她见面那天，你都看见了（参见7.3节《相亲》）。有一次，在没别人的时候，她就这样（侧着脸）就咬牙切齿地叨咕，还让我听着，‘没用的东西，这点事儿都办不好，你还能干啥！’诶！我给她介绍男朋友，是给她办事呢；我是看在她爸爸的面子。”
Teacher Zhu said to him:
"It's not obvious!" To me, he said: "It's not that you are
inferior! Eve Liu is different. This girl squeezes dislike, that's what makes
it hard! Look at me, I'm in my forties, but when no one's around, I've cried
five or six times because of her. Look, I just introduced her to boyfriends,
how did she treat me? You saw it the day you met her (see section 7.3 Blind
Date). Once, when no one else was around, she just gritted her teeth like this
(with his face turned sideways) and made me listen, 'Worthless thing, even
can't do this simple affair, what else can you do!' Eh! I introduced her to a
boyfriend as a favor to her; I did it for her father's sake."
我自己也觉得这事怪：我怎么反应这么强烈！我说：“我没事，她说的都是事实，只是感觉委屈。”
他的室友说：“没伤自尊，人家都说对了！”
祝老师对他嚷嚷：“说错了怎么能伤自尊呢！” 又对我说：“那丫头看人的短处，那看得才准呢！”
I also found this strange:
Why did I react so strongly? I said, "I'm fine. What she said were true. I
just feel wronged."
His roommate said, "It
didn't hurt his pride. She was right!"
Teacher Zhu yelled at him,
"How can something wrong hurt self-esteem?" Then he said to me,
"That girl is so accurate in seeing people's flaws!"
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